Men men men

You probably been ask this many times, who wasn't?
What is your type?
What kind of men make you blush, feel nervous even for a split second, or fill your fantasies?

No matter if you are married, single, dating, just like our partners, we also will let our eye "hang" for a moment on a man of our "dreams".

Perhaps he will be standing in the subway, reading news paper, in his grey sweater with black framed, thick glasses, worn out jeans and hair that say "I did style them into messy hairdo".
And you may eye his lips, full, colour of raspberries, or maybe skinny and curved into a small smirk. Perhaps peppered with light beard or 12 o'clock shadow or maybe clean shaved with perfect olive skin and wrapped in fresh scent of the cologne.

What would be my type?
Is it easy to just pick 4 limbs, head, attached eyes to it, hair, no hair, belly, no belly, with long legs, short legs, hairy legs, bald, with long hair, ponytail, curly hair, straight, red, blonde, black.
I am unsure.

Over the years I came to the conclusion that it's not really about a list of features that I look in a man but rather a set of qualities. Things that I can swap around, accept, exchange, find interest in even when I thought that I don't want to.

The way he walks, smiles, gazes at you, is he direct or a bit shy, cocky, to loud or maybe to shy. Maybe he will smell beautiful when brushing his lips against the side of your neck or perhaps his beautiful hands will push a lock of hair away from your face so he can stare into your eyes and tell you how beautiful you are. And you will know that he means it, because his smile will be real, and you know his knees feel weak when you around.

Or maybe he will be a macho man, tough, direct, smelling of fresh soap because that's all he will use, with shave head, perhaps a tattoo on his arm highlighting his larger bicep. Wearing plain t-shirt and pain of jeans he owned since 1998 and same plain pair of Nike's.

Will he wake you up with cup of coffee and kiss on the shoulder. Or slap in the butt and way to energetic rubbing because he can't keep his hands off you, even after a long, active night.
Or maybe he cuddle, take your scent with him to work, spending only 10-minutes in washroom.
Will he switch your favorite song playing on iTunes, or try to wrap his arms around you and spin you around in random dance, just to watch you chuckle then slap him on the shoulder because after all you are late to work and there is no time for goofing around, well maybe for a moment, for one more second, for one more kiss, for one more brief minute with his arms around you so you can feel like a princess at least once a day.

So what is my type?